For people with a clitoris or a vagina, this is how to achieve an orgasm on your own terms. But we forget that on the screens, especially the small ones pornography , an orgasm is often performative. They can visibly ejaculate.
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Sure, orgasms feel great, but how much do you know about their effects on your body and mind? The weird things that happen when you orgasm may surprise you, because there's a lot of activity going on even when it feels like your brain is shorting out. Your moment of bliss relies on many physical, mental, and even emotional responses. It's weirder and more fascinating that you may realize. Yes, there's a reason your hands may clench and shake or your face makes the weirdest expressions ever. It's all a part of the orgasmic response. Both your brain and body undergo some serious changes to make sure you get that all-important pleasurable feeling. So whether you're with a longterm partner, dating, or flying solo, it's cool to know the dynamics of orgasmic reaction. It might help explain why you just don't have any worries for a few moments after the big O, or why your face gets super red for a while.
1. Build Sexual Tension
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In fact, sex is weird. There are strange smells and noises, and random situations that can lead to a whole boatload of awkwardness. It would be nice if movies and TV gave us a heads up about queefing, you know? Totally not smooth sailing. Sexy is a mess and sometimes even gross thing that we all thoroughly enjoy. Although leg cramps during sex are completely common , they can be awkward as hell. You can go from having great sex, to screaming wildly as you jump out of bed and try to shake your muscle back into place. Talk about mood killer.